Chat over 60sex
This will give you time to get an idea about the other person's reliability and honesty. The risk of meeting a "bunny boiler" or psychopath are very slight.
Remember too that the other person is probably also a bit nervous and cautious, so try not to rush them. Get a phone number at home or at work before you meet, if you can. (Yes, even the over 60's sometimes still have sex - despite what our children think). Take sensible precautions (see above) then just get out there and have some FUN!
Which position would you recommend for those over-sixty?If you feel especially nervous or wary, perhaps you could arrange to have a friend or relative sitting discreetly in the background. It takes a while to get to know someone, so don't rush in too quickly.